Signs that HE is NOT the ONE.

Here are some signs that will guide you to decode whether your guy is worth of your time or not. If he shows any of these signs, its time for you to think if the relationship is fruitful or not.

1. He's in control. He tells you what to do, what to wear, where to go, what to eat, etc. He is not giving you your freedom to do what you want. He don't like you for you. He want to make you what you are not and what he want you to be. This is a sign that he don' trust you.

2. He cheated on you. He did something that is not right and will not help your relationship to be stronger. Remember that once a cheater, always a cheater.They may beg, they may cry, but don’t let your guard down like he did when he cheated on you.

3. He cries a lot. It is okay for a guy to cry once in a while but to cry in front of you almost everyday, be suspicious girl. Maybe he only wants to get your sympathy and attention. First ask him what's the problem and when he answered that he is just emotional, make a heart-to-heart talk with him to settle what's the matter. But if he only wants to get your attention, tell him that you are not his Mother and run away fast.

4. He makes you feel uncomfortable. In any relationship, both parties should be comfortable with each other. If you feel uncomfortable, your relationship will not work.

5. He has a substance of abuse problem. If your partner has an addiction whether to drugs, alcohol or smoking will be a big problem to you. He may encourage you to try these said addiction of him and make you an addict like him. Just think of the bad consequence that you will get in the future if you let his bad habit to continue.

6. He hit you. Even a simple slap will cause you into trouble. That little slap will turn into big slaps, punches, and eventually beatings. He is abusive and you need to rescue yourself from mugging.

7. You spent all of your money for him. A man should be responsible. He should know when he needs to be the one in-charge of spending for the both of you. You should not be a martyr and pay for all the expenses you both waste. See what happens when you tell him that you don’t have the money, then decide if you like the reaction.

8. He hates your family, friends and everyone close to you. Your friends and family are the reflections of who you are. If your partner hates your friends, it only means that he also hates YOU. Your friends and your family will always be with you more than your boyfriend.

9. He lets his friends to disrespect you. If your guy lets his friends and anyone he knows disrespect you, it only means he also disrespect you. He will not let anybody to contempt you if he truly loves you.

10. You two are not moving at the same pace. He treat you as a "cute girl" he dates while you treat him as the one you will going to marry. If he's not into you like you're into him, why waste of time. Move on girl, dump him.

The first thing to do in engaging with a relationship is that you should first know each other well to avoid these signs and evade break-ups.